{"product_id":"challenging-the-fantasy-bond-a-search-for-personal-identity-and-freedom-9781433835810","title":"Challenging the Fantasy Bond: A Search for Personal Identity and Freedom","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003eClinical psychologist and theorist Robert Firestone explores why we are compelled to repeat the pain of our past and avoid positive experiences in his book \"Challenging the Fantasy Bond.\" He explains how the fantasy bond, an illusion of connection, develops early in childhood to cope with parental misattunement, neglect, or mistreatment. The book presents case studies illustrating how the critical inner voice causes pain and discomfort and interferes with intimacy, and how Voice Therapy can be used to counteract these destructive internal messages. It also identifies the existential fears that contribute to prejudice, political divisiveness, and ethnic strife. \u003c\/blockquote\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eFormat\u003c\/strong\u003e: Paperback \/ softback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLength\u003c\/strong\u003e: 327 pages\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePublication date\u003c\/strong\u003e: 15 February 2022\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePublisher\u003c\/strong\u003e: American Psychological Association\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis much-anticipated follow-up to the critically acclaimed and bestselling The Fantasy Bond delves into the intricate question of why so many of us are driven to relive the pain of our past while actively avoiding positive experiences that could enrich our lives. In his thought-provoking book, clinical psychologist and theorist Robert Firestone explores the development of the fantasy bond, an illusion of connection, which arises early in childhood as a coping mechanism for the pain and frustration caused by parental misattunement, neglect, or mistreatment. This illusion is manifested as the critical inner voice, a destructive internal thought process that hinders our ability to embrace the present and fully experience life.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eLater on, the fantasy bond extends to family members, intimate partners, and social groups, creating a cycle of repetitive patterns and self-defeating behaviors. In Challenging the Fantasy Bond, Dr. Firestone presents his latest insights and observations about the self-defeating aspects of this process, placing them within the broader context of his theoretical approach, Separation Theory.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eCompelling case studies are provided to illustrate the profound pain and discomfort caused by the critical inner voice, as well as its interference with intimacy. These case studies showcase how Voice Therapy, a cognitive, affective, and behavioral methodology, can be employed to counteract these destructive internal messages and assist individuals in embracing the present, rather than reliving the past. By challenging our illusions of a merged identity and moving towards separation and individuation, we can cultivate greater autonomy and fulfillment in our lives.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis companion to a classic work is particularly timely in its identification of the existential fears that contribute to prejudice, political divisiveness, and ethnic strife. By addressing these fears and embracing a more nuanced understanding of ourselves and others, we can work towards a more harmonious and inclusive world.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDimension\u003c\/strong\u003e: 229 x 152 (mm)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eISBN-13\u003c\/strong\u003e: 9781433835810\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Robert W. Firestone","offers":[{"title":"Paperback \/ softback","offer_id":44504933826810,"sku":"9781433835810","price":35.14,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0522\/4297\/2845\/products\/1692362196137_book.jpg?v=1692612744","url":"https:\/\/shulphink.com\/products\/challenging-the-fantasy-bond-a-search-for-personal-identity-and-freedom-9781433835810","provider":"Shulph Ink","version":"1.0","type":"link"}