{"product_id":"rapprochement-between-fathers-and-sons-breakdowns-reunions-potentialities-9781800132382","title":"Rapprochement Between Fathers and Sons: Breakdowns, Reunions, Potentialities","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cbr\u003eFathers are attuned to relational mutuality and intimacy as a source of flourishing, and rapprochement is a sub-phase of child development marked by a dramatic expression of conflict. Working with what is felt entails entering a never fully completed negotiation marked by misreadings, bias, and illusion. A case is made for a social surround that declares mutual vulnerability to exist in a state of permanent inquiry and relational curiosity to aid parents, clinicians, and community members to privilege the development of increased frustration tolerance. \u003c\/blockquote\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eFormat\u003c\/strong\u003e: Paperback \/ softback\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLength\u003c\/strong\u003e: 256 pages\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePublication date\u003c\/strong\u003e: 23 November 2023\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003ePublisher\u003c\/strong\u003e: Karnac Books\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003eFollowing Freud's rather cold conception of fathers and a relative neglect of their role in psychoanalytic theory, there is a challenge to continue more recent efforts to develop a psychoanalytically affirmative portrait of fatherhood. Here, fathers are attuned to relational mutuality and intimacy as a source of flourishing. Rapprochement is understood as a sub-phase of child development marked by a dramatic expression of conflict, such as, \"Hear me, see me, give me space, don't give me space.\" In addition, rapprochement is considered to characterize conflicts between autonomy and dependency across the lifespan. An often muted and subtle tension between holding and letting go persists. Working with what is felt entails entering a never fully completed negotiation marked by misreadings, bias, and illusion. 'Father is understood to be a name pointing to a parenting function. With material that includes the grief of failed reunion, particular stories are mediated through thinking alongside philosophy and psychoanalytic theory in order to further explore the difficulty of integrating nurturing capacities into conceptions of masculinity. As a critique of gendered rigidity, a case is made for a social surround that declares mutual vulnerability to exist in a state of permanent inquiry and relational curiosity. Such openness can function to aid parents, clinicians, and respective community members to privilege the development of increased frustration tolerance. By extension, a good-enough father is one who recognizes breakdown, a need for refueling, and possesses and practices a willingness to encounter uneven rhythms in human dimensions.\u003cbr\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis thoughtful work brings fresh insight into the role of the father and masculinity and is essential reading for mental health professionals.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWeight\u003c\/strong\u003e: 416g\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eDimension\u003c\/strong\u003e: 151 x 228 x 17 (mm)\u003cbr\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eISBN-13\u003c\/strong\u003e: 9781800132382\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Louis Rothschild","offers":[{"title":"Paperback \/ softback","offer_id":44945512136954,"sku":"9781800132382","price":25.87,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0522\/4297\/2845\/products\/noImage_1_4955ff5e-9833-4787-8d1a-b7af86779479.jpg?v=1704017529","url":"https:\/\/shulphink.com\/products\/rapprochement-between-fathers-and-sons-breakdowns-reunions-potentialities-9781800132382","provider":"Shulph Ink","version":"1.0","type":"link"}