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Artificial Intimacy: Virtual Friends, Digital Lovers, and Algorithmic Matchmakers

Artificial Intimacy: Virtual Friends, Digital Lovers, and Algorithmic Matchmakers

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The human brain, evolved over eons, collides with twenty-first-century technology, leading to the emergence of sex robots. However, more familiar technologies based on artificial intelligence and virtual reality are also insinuating themselves into human interactions, such as digital lovers, virtual friends, and algorithmic matchmakers. Digital lovers, virtual friends, and algorithmic matchmakers help us manage our feelings in a world of cognitive overload. Will these machines, fueled by masses of user data and powered by algorithms that learn all the time, transform the quality of human life?

Format: Hardback
Length: 304 pages
Publication date: 07 September 2021
Publisher: Columbia University Press




The human brain, which evolved over eons, collides with twenty-first-century technology, leading to a fascinating and complex interplay. Machines have become adept at pushing psychological buttons, stimulating and sometimes exploiting the ways people make friends, gossip with neighbors, and grow intimate with lovers. One notable manifestation of this technological revolution is the emergence of sex robots, which present a humanoid face to this transformation. While it is easy to marvel at their uncanny appearance, it is important to recognize that more familiar technologies based in artificial intelligence and virtual reality are also insinuating themselves into human interactions. Digital lovers, virtual friends, and algorithmic matchmakers are helping us navigate the overwhelming cognitive overload of our modern world. These machines, fueled by vast amounts of user data and powered by algorithms that learn continuously, have the potential to transform the quality of human life in profound ways.


Artificial Intimacy provides a thought-provoking exploration of these possibilities. The book is written by evolutionary biologist Rob Brooks, who delves into the latest research on intimacy and desire to consider the interplay between new technologies and fundamental human behaviors. Brooks combines an understanding of core human traits derived from evolutionary biology with an analysis of how cultural, economic, and technological contexts shape the ways in which people express these traits. Beyond the technology itself, he raises important questions about the implications of artificial intimacy for our understanding of ourselves.


One of the key insights of Artificial Intimacy is that existing artificial intelligences are already capable of learning and exploiting human social needs. These machines can analyze vast amounts of data and use algorithms to predict and influence human behavior. For example, social media platforms use algorithms to personalize user experiences and recommend content that aligns with their interests. Dating apps use algorithms to match users based on their preferences and behavior.


However, the ability of these machines to learn and exploit human social needs also raises concerns about privacy and autonomy. As these technologies become more advanced, they may be able to gather and analyze even more sensitive information about individuals, including their personal preferences, relationships, and behavior. This could lead to the erosion of privacy and the potential for manipulation or exploitation.


Another important aspect of Artificial Intimacy is the impact it could have on human relationships. While some argue that these technologies can provide new opportunities for connection and intimacy, others fear that they may lead to the dehumanization of human interactions. For example, the use of sex robots could replace human relationships and reduce the importance of emotional connection and empathy.


Artificial Intimacy also raises questions about the role of technology in shaping our understanding of love and relationships. As we increasingly rely on algorithms and machines to manage our feelings and find partners, we may lose sight of the deeper human qualities that are essential to meaningful connections.


In conclusion, Artificial Intimacy offers a thought-provoking exploration of the possibilities and challenges of the human brain colliding with twenty-first-century technology. The book by evolutionary biologist Rob Brooks combines an understanding of core human traits with an analysis of how cultural, economic, and technological contexts shape the ways in which people express these traits. While these technologies have the potential to transform the quality of human life in many ways, they also raise important concerns about privacy, autonomy, and the role of technology in shaping our understanding of love and relationships. As we navigate this complex landscape, it is essential to consider the ethical and social implications of these emerging technologies and work towards creating a future that balances the benefits of innovation with the preservation of human values.

Weight: 598g
Dimension: 164 x 245 x 24 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9780231200943

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