Available As Is: A Midlife Widow's Search for Love

After losing her husband, Debbie Weiss became a dating monster, averaging two dates a day. She felt that midlife dating was a battle of the sexes, and the line in the sand was how much women were willing to tolerate. She went offline to grieve her loss and forgive herself, and realized that she needed to find herself.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 256 pages
Publication date: 27 October 2022
Publisher: She Writes Press

After the untimely passing of her husband, George, Debbie Weiss, a fifty-year-old woman, found herself embarking on a new chapter of life that she was unsure how to navigate. In the initial days of her grief, she resorted to binge-watching Netflix and indulging in Manhattans as a means of coping. However, her journey soon took an unexpected turn when she became a dating monster, engaging with various online dating platforms. Within a short span of time, Debbie's dating routine had escalated to an average of two dates per day. She had transitioned from a respectable widow to a figure that some might consider a romantic prospect, but not one suitable for a prom night.

During this period, Debbie found herself involved with multiple men simultaneously, including one who withheld meeting his family due to their online encounter. She began to perceive midlife dating as a fierce battle of the sexes, where the boundaries of what women were willing to tolerate were constantly being tested. Frustrated by the dynamics, Debbie decided to take a break from the online dating scene and go offline.

It was during this period of withdrawal that Debbie finally allowed herself to fully grieve the loss of her husband. She delved into the depths of her emotions, confronting the pain and sadness that had been plaguing her for months. Simultaneously, she realized the importance of forgiving herself for both Georges's death and for losing her identity within their marriage.

Available As Is is a poignant and witty memoir that explores the complexities of seeking love while simultaneously discovering oneself. Through her journey, Debbie candidly shares her experiences, offering a raw and honest portrayal of the challenges and triumphs of midlife dating. The book strikes a balance between darkness and humor, providing a relatable and entertaining narrative that will resonate with readers who have faced similar struggles in their own lives.

Dimension: 215 x 139 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781647422370