Crazy for You: Breaking the Spell of Sex and Love Addiction

Sex and love addiction is a spectrum, and many people struggle with it without knowing it. Psychologist and bestselling memoirist Kerry Cohen's book "Crazy for You" provides an inclusive framework for understanding relationships and offers practical exercises and advice for self-assessment, discovery, and healing.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 304 pages
Publication date: 14 October 2021
Publisher: Hachette Books

For anyone who has ever wondered why it seems like everyone else has a successful romantic relationship while they struggle to find the same success, the question "What's wrong with me?" has likely crossed their mind. Love can be a complex and challenging emotion, and many people struggle to navigate it in a healthy way. Psychologist and bestselling memoirist Kerry Cohen is well-versed in the questions she often hears from her clients, as well as the ones she has asked herself. Despite sex and love being some of the most universal and sought-after experiences, many of us lack the necessary tools and understanding to approach them effectively. Unbeknownst to many, those struggling with sex and love may actually fall somewhere on the spectrum of sex and love addiction (SLA).

SLA is a condition that is still widely misunderstood and shrouded in secrecy and shame. Many counselors lack the training to address it, leaving people who need help without resources. However, SLA is not a binary of being either addicted or not; rather, it is a spectrum. Kerry Cohen, who identifies on the SLA spectrum as both a therapist and someone who has experienced SLA, understands this well. In her book, Crazy for You, Cohen delves into SLA and provides an inclusive framework for understanding relationships. The book offers practical exercises and advice for self-assessment, discovery, and healing, helping individuals on the SLA spectrum navigate healthy, safe, and fulfilling relationships.

Part one of the book explains the SLA spectrum, helping individuals determine their place on it and the factors that may have contributed to their addiction. It sheds light on the various symptoms and behaviors associated with SLA, such as compulsive sexual behavior, emotional dependence, and a lack of control over sexual impulses. Cohen also discusses the societal stigma and shame surrounding SLA, which can make it difficult for individuals to seek help and support.

Part two of the book introduces strategies for breaking the spell of SLA. Cohen provides practical exercises and self-awareness techniques to help individuals develop healthier patterns of behavior and break the cycle of addiction. She emphasizes the importance of developing self-esteem, setting boundaries, and practicing self-care. Cohen also discusses the role of therapy and support groups in the recovery process, providing guidance on finding the right

Part three of the book teaches individuals how to navigate healthy, safe, and fulfilling relationships. Cohen emphasizes the importance of communication, trust, and mutual respect in relationships and provides guidance on building and maintaining healthy connections. She also discusses the challenges of dating and relationships with individuals on the SLA spectrum, such as the fear of rejection and the need for transparency and honesty.

In conclusion, Crazy for You is a valuable resource for anyone who has struggled with sex and love addiction or is looking to understand and navigate healthy relationships. Kerry Cohen's inclusive framework provides a comprehensive understanding of SLA and offers practical exercises and advice for self-assessment, discovery, and healing. The book is a must-read for anyone who wants to break the cycle of addiction and build fulfilling, healthy relationships.

Weight: 314g
Dimension: 203 x 302 x 23 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9780738286198