Good Boundaries and Goodbyes Study Guide with DVD: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are

Lysa TerKeurst's six-session video Bible study "Good Boundaries and Goodbyes" equips participants to determine appropriate personal and emotional access, overcome ineffective boundary-setting, and say goodbye when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive. The study guide includes the study guide, individual access code to stream all six video sessions online, and the physical DVD. Sessions and video run times are 22:00, 28:00, 20:30, 21:30, 30:30, and 26:00. Streaming video access code included, subject to expiration after 12/31/2027.

Format: Paperback / softback
Publication date: 29 November 2022
Publisher: HarperChristian Resources

Love should draw us together, not tear us apart.

Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary? And what does the Bible instruct us to do when a relationship is no longer safe or sustainable? Lysa TerKeurst has asked these hard questions in the midst of her own relational struggles.

But after thousands of hours of counseling intensives and theological research, Lysa has discovered that good boundaries pave the road for the truest version of love to emerge within the relationships that make up so much of who we are and what we want the most.

Building upon and further unpacking the scriptural concepts in Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, this six-session video Bible study (streaming code included) with Lysa will equip you to:

Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you.

Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Scriptures.

Overcome the frustrating cycle of ineffective boundary-setting with biblical principles and practical strategies to help you communicate, keep, and implement healthier patterns.

Be equipped to say goodbye when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive by studying three types of goodbyes found in God's Word.

Receive therapeutic and theological wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa's Christian counselor, Jim Cress, and Proverbs 31 Ministries Director of Theology, Dr. Joel Muddamalle.

This study guide has everything you need for a full Bible study experience, including:

The study guide itself—with a comprehensive structure for group discussion time, video notes, and a leader's guide.

An individual access code to stream all six video sessions online.

And the physical DVD.

Sessions and video run times:

Boundaries Aren't Just a Good Idea.

Lysa TerKeurst is a New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and counselor who has written more than 20 books, including The Best Yes, The Hardest No, and What Women Wish You Knew. She is the founder of Proverbs 31 Ministries, a global movement of women who are learning to live out biblical womanhood in all areas of life. Lysa has been married to her husband, Dave, for more than 25 years, and they have three children.

Lysa has faced many challenges in her own life, including infidelity, addiction, and depression. But through her own journey of healing and growth, she has discovered the power of healthy boundaries in relationships.

In Good Boundaries and Goodbyes, Lysa shares her wisdom and experience with readers in a practical and relatable way. She explains that good boundaries are not about being mean or controlling, but about protecting ourselves and our relationships from harm. She also provides biblical principles and practical strategies for setting and enforcing healthy boundaries in all areas of life, including relationships, work, and ministry.

One of the key themes of the book is the importance of saying goodbye when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive. Lysa explains that there are three types of goodbyes that we can experience in relationships:

The Goodbye of Protection: This goodbye is necessary when a relationship is toxic or abusive and is causing harm to ourselves or others. It is a painful but necessary step to protect ourselves and our loved ones from further harm.

The Goodbye of Grace: This goodbye is necessary when a relationship has run its course and is no longer healthy or sustainable. It is a graceful and loving way to end a relationship that has served its purpose.

The Goodbye of Hope: This goodbye is necessary when we are unable to see any hope for a future relationship with someone. It is a painful but necessary step to let go of the hope that the relationship will improve or change.

Lysa provides practical guidance for saying goodbye in each of these situations, including how to communicate effectively, how to set boundaries, and how to deal with the emotional aftermath of a goodbye.

Another key theme of the book is the importance of personal and emotional boundaries. Lysa explains that we need to protect our own hearts and minds from the harm that can be caused by unhealthy relationships. She provides practical strategies for setting and enforcing personal and emotional boundaries, including how to say no, how to set limits, and how to deal with the fear of rejection.

Lysa also addresses the issue of boundaries in the context of ministry and leadership. She explains that as leaders, we need to set healthy boundaries with our teams, our volunteers, and our communities to protect ourselves and our organizations from harm. She provides practical strategies for setting and enforcing boundaries in the workplace, including how to deal with difficult employees, how to delegate effectively, and how to protect yourself from burnout.

Good Boundaries and Goodbyes is a powerful and practical book that provides readers with the wisdom and tools they need to set and enforce healthy boundaries in all areas of life. Whether you are struggling with unhealthy relationships, struggling with work-life balance, or are a leader in ministry, this book will help you to navigate the challenges of boundaries with grace and wisdom.

In conclusion, love should draw us together, not tear us apart. Good boundaries are essential for protecting ourselves and our relationships from harm. Lysa TerKeurst's book Good Boundaries and Goodbyes provides readers with the wisdom and tools they need to set and enforce healthy boundaries in all areas of life. Whether you are struggling with unhealthy relationships, struggling with work-life balance, or are a leader in ministry, this book will help you to navigate the challenges of boundaries with grace and wisdom.

Weight: 412g
Dimension: 229 x 190 x 25 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9780310140382