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Kinderwunsch und Wirklichkeit: Systemisch begleiten

Kinderwunsch und Wirklichkeit: Systemisch begleiten

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The author discusses systemic and transgenerative fertility counseling for unwanted childless people, who may feel shame and powerlessness. They suggest that the desire to have children can be seen as a resource and used as a process to design a worthwhile life. The book is aimed at therapists, counselors, coaches, and those affected and their relatives, and offers successful companions in advising clients.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 110 pages
Publication date: 21 December 2021
Publisher: Vandenhoeck & Ruprecht GmbH & Co KG


The emotional rollercoaster that comes with every four-week cycle can be challenging for those who are struggling with infertility. It is important to note that systemic and transgenerative fertility counseling can provide support and stability to those who are unintentionally childless, helping them navigate the complex emotions that come with this experience. For those who are unintentionally childless, the feeling of shame and powerlessness can be overwhelming, as old biographical wounds resurface. The desire to have children is a deeply personal, political, ethical, and controversial topic in the realm of reproductive medicine, and those affected must adopt a separate attitude to address it.

The author of this volume aims to shed light on the topicality of the discourse and demonstrate how singles and couples can actively assess and weigh their values, wishes, and ideas. By viewing the longing for a child as a resource and using it as a process to guide a meaningful design of everyday life, individuals can find solace and fulfillment even in the absence of a child. It is important to recognize that a child cannot be replaced, but a happy life is still achievable. This volume is intended for therapists, counselors, coaches, those affected, and their relatives. Systemic methods, such as integrating the desired child into the family system, can be effective companions in advising clients on their journey toward parenthood.

Furthermore, a transgenerational perspective can be invaluable in counseling, as it considers the experiences and perspectives of both current and future generations. By understanding the historical and cultural factors that may impact fertility, counselors can provide personalized advice that takes into account the unique circumstances of each client.

In conclusion, the journey of infertility can be a difficult and emotional one, but with the right family system and transgenerational perspective, systemic and transgenerative fertility counseling can provide support and stability to those who are unintentionally childless. By viewing the longing for a child as a resource and using it as a process to guide a meaningful design of everyday life, individuals can find solace and fulfillment even in the absence of a child. It is important to seek professional help and support to navigate this complex journey.


Dimension: 185 x 120 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9783525407912

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