Marry Me a Little: A Graphic Memoir

Marry Me a Little is a personal story by Rob Kirby that recounts his experience of marrying his longtime partner, John, just after same-sex marriage was legalized in Minnesota in 2013. It is set against the historical and political backdrop of shifting attitudes toward LGBTQ+ rights and marriage. With humor, candor, and a near-whimsical drawing style, Kirby relates how he and John navigated this changing landscape, planned and celebrated their wedding, and how the LGBTQ+ community is now facing the possibility of setbacks to marriage equality.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 112 pages
Publication date: 21 February 2023
Publisher: Pennsylvania State University Press

Marriage, a mere societal construct, holds no sway over the essence of a relationship. Unless one chooses to imbue it with such significance. In his captivating memoir, Marry Me a Little, Rob Kirby shares his poignant journey of marrying his beloved partner, John, in the aftermath of same-sex marriage legalization in Minnesota in 2013, mere two years before the landmark Supreme Court decision in Obergefell v. Hodges, which bestowed nationwide recognition on same-sex marriage. This deeply personal narrative unfolds against the backdrop of evolving attitudes toward LGBTQ+ rights and marriage, offering a unique perspective on Robs ambivalence, if not outright antipathy, toward the institution itself. Yet, it is through the prism of his profound love for John and the vibrant life they share together that the true essence of their relationship shines forth. With a blend of humor, candor, and a captivating drawing style, Rob intricately weaves together the intricacies of their journey, from the planning and celebration of their wedding to the ongoing challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community in the pursuit of marriage equality. Marry Me a Little is a heartfelt testament to the power of love, resilience, and the enduring spirit of the LGBTQ+ community in the face of adversity. It serves as a poignant reminder that love knows no boundaries and that the pursuit of happiness and equality is a shared journey for all.

Weight: 340g
Dimension: 235 x 171 x 8 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781637790397