Nesting After Divorce: Co-Parenting in the Family Home

Nesting is a child-centered approach to parenting after divorce that gives children custody of the home while parents move around. It was created by Beth Behrendt after her divorce and is a more affordable and healthy approach than the traditional two-home model. She has written a book called Nesting After Divorce that provides a step-by-step guide for divorcing parents to introduce the practice.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 304 pages
Publication date: 20 July 2023
Publisher: Union Square & Co.

In the realm of conscious uncoupling, a groundbreaking guide emerges for parenting after divorce, known as nesting. This approach, centered around the well-being of children, aims to transform the landscape of family life following a marriage's dissolution. Research indicates that children bear the greatest impact when couples separate, often experiencing the upheaval of being shuttled between two different homes. Recognizing this, Beth Behrendt, in the aftermath of her own divorce, discovered a transformative solution: she granted her children custody of the family home, while she and her husband embarked on a mobile lifestyle. Over a span of more than six years, Behrendt successfully implemented what is known as "nesting," leading her to develop a comprehensive step-by-step guide for divorcing parents seeking to introduce this practice into their own families.

In her book, Nesting After Divorce, Behrendt presents a coparenting program that can be initiated when an unhappily married couple explores the merits and drawbacks of a nesting divorce. She offers valuable guidance on determining whether nesting is the appropriate choice for a particular family and effectively communicating the concept to spouses, children, friends, and family members. She outlines the essential steps for assembling a skilled "nesting team" comprising legal, financial, and mental health professionals, demonstrating how nesting can, surprisingly, be a more cost-effective approach to divorce compared to the traditional two-home model.

Behrendt's divorce book expands upon her widely acclaimed 2017 New York Times essay, "After Divorce, Giving Our Kids Custody of the Home," making it an invaluable resource for anyone seeking a healthy, amicable divorce for their family. By embracing the principles of nesting, divorcing parents can create a nurturing environment that prioritizes the emotional well-being of their children, fostering a sense of stability and continuity as they navigate the challenges of separation.

Dimension: 210 x 140 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781454949794