Raising Resilient Children with a Borderline or Narcissistic Parent

This book provides guidance for parents dealing with narcissistic or borderline partners, emphasizing the importance of shielding children from the negative effects of such relationships. Written by two experienced family therapists, it offers practical advice and strategies for promoting resilience and self-compassion in children, even in challenging family environments.

\n Format: Paperback / softback
\n Length: 234 pages
\n Publication date: 03 January 2021
\n Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield
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Being partnered with a narcissist or borderline personality can be a challenging and complex experience, but protecting children from the negative effects of such relationships is of utmost importance. In this book, the authors aim to provide guidance and support to parents who find themselves in this situation. Life within a narcissistic family system can be chaotic, isolating, and emotionally turbulent, often lacking peace and emotional safety. Unfortunately, in the worst cases, children raised in these environments develop low self-worth, trust issues, and a lack of self-compassion. They are at a significant risk of perpetuating the cycle and experiencing poor adult relationships. This book offers a way to intervene and break the cycle of negative outcomes for children. Written by two experienced family therapists with a combined sixty years of clinical practice, the book offers clear-headed advice and practical steps to help children and families affected by narcissistic or borderline personalities. Instead of dwelling on the negative stereotypes often associated with these relationships, the book presents a more positive outlook and provides hope for a different outcome. Supported by current research in neuroscience, mindfulness, and parenting information, the book focuses on teaching resilience and self-compassion to raise emotionally healthy children, even in challenging narcissistic family systems. It begins by helping parents gain a deeper understanding of the challenges they face and the dynamics of the narcissistic family system. While acknowledging the reality of the situation, the book offers a range of options and strategies to navigate the complexities. It explains how and why the narcissistic family system functions, providing insights into the motivations and behaviors of narcissistic individuals and their impact on family members. By understanding these dynamics, parents can develop coping skills, set boundaries, and create a supportive environment for their children. The book also emphasizes the importance of seeking professional help and support, whether through therapy, support groups, or resources available to families affected by narcissistic or borderline personalities. It recognizes that managing these relationships can be overwhelming, and having a network of understanding individuals and professionals can provide valuable guidance and emotional support. Throughout the book, the authors use real-life examples and case studies to illustrate their points and provide practical guidance for parents. They offer insights into the emotional struggles of children raised in narcissistic families, as well as strategies for helping them develop resilience, self-esteem, and healthy coping mechanisms. The book also addresses the impact of narcissistic or borderline personalities on adult relationships, offering advice for navigating these complex dynamics and promoting healthy communication and boundaries. In conclusion, this book is a valuable resource for parents who are navigating the challenges of being partnered with a narcissist or borderline personality. It provides a comprehensive and practical guide to managing parenting in these complex relationships, offering hope, support, and strategies for raising emotionally healthy children. By understanding the dynamics of narcissistic or borderline personalities and implementing effective parenting strategies, parents can break the cycle of negative outcomes and create a brighter future for their families.

\n Weight: 314g\n
Dimension: 139 x 217 x 18 (mm)\n
ISBN-13: 9781538127636\n \n