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Dr. Justin J. Lehmiller

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life

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Reading [ Tell Me What You Want ] may be the best thing you ever do for your sex life, relationships, and self-acceptance, according to Geoffrey Miller and Justin J. Lehmiller. It offers an unprecedented look into our fantasy worlds and what they reveal about us, helping us to understand our own sexual desires and how to attain them within our relationships.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 288 pages
Publication date: 25 August 2022
Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group



Reading "Tell Me What You Want" may be the best thing you ever do for your sex life, relationships, and self-acceptance, according to Geoffrey Miller, author of "The Mating Mind," "Spent," and "Mate."


What do we really want when it comes to sex? How can we break the barriers that prevent us from communicating about our desires?


Justin J. Lehmiller, a leading expert on human sexuality and author of the popular blog "Sex and Psychology," has made it his career's ambition to answer these questions.


Based on his monumental two-year study of sexual fantasies involving more than 4,000 people from all walks of life, "Tell Me What You Want" offers an unprecedented look into our fantasy worlds and what they reveal about us. It will help you to understand your own sexual desires and how to attain them within your relationships, but also to appreciate why your partner may have sexual proclivities that are so different from your own.


Appreciating the incredible diversity of human sexual desire and why this diversity exists in the first place can help you to overcome distress, anxiety, and shame about your own sexual fantasies; ultimately enhancing your sex life. Breaking down barriers to discussing sexual fantasies and allowing them to become a part of your sexual reality is the pathway to maintaining more satisfying relationships.

Weight: 228g
Dimension: 126 x 198 x 22 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781472142221

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