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Eric FitzMedrud

The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex

The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex

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Relationship therapist Eric FitzMedrud uses his expertise to teach men how to hone their consent skills for stronger relationships and hotter sex. The book provides accurate, sex-positive information and exercises to help men learn how to ask for the passionate sex they want and deliver the pleasure a partner desires. It also addresses toxic masculinity and celebrates male sexuality.

Format: Hardback
Length: 264 pages
Publication date: 02 November 2023
Publisher: Wonderwell


Are you a man who's struggling with understanding consent? You're not alone. In the post-#MeToo era, men are aware of the importance of obtaining consent but may not know how to ask for it effectively. They may fear doing the wrong thing or worry about losing out on hot sex. However, in this comprehensive guide to navigating sexual relationships with respect, sex-positive psychologist Eric FitzMedrud offers valuable insights to help men become better lovers, partners, and individuals.

The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex empowers men to embrace their sexuality, manage their emotions, and understand entitlement. It also sheds light on how toxic masculinity harms men and affects their sexual experiences with partners. This skills-based guide, grounded in evidence-based techniques, teaches men how to practice consent in various relationship situations and with different people, including romantic partners, acquaintances, and coworkers.

Using everyday examples, The Better Man provides accurate, sex-positive information, along with confidence-boosting exercises and shame-busting drills, to help men learn how to ask for the passionate sex they desire and listen well enough to deliver the pleasure their partners desire.

In this book, men will discover:

Evidence-based skills and strategies for practicing consent: Learn practical techniques to communicate effectively and respectfully in your relationships.

Understanding that getting consent can be sexy: Embrace the idea that consent is a mutually enjoyable and pleasurable experience for both partners.

Communicate more effectively in your relationships: Develop effective communication skills to express your desires, boundaries, and needs clearly.

Heal your own wounds from patriarchy: Take responsibility for your own behavior and work towards healing any past trauma or negative beliefs related to masculinity.

Use principles of safety and health to pursue passionate sex: Ensure that your sexual encounters are safe, consensual, and respectful of both partners' boundaries.

Understand toxic masculinity while celebrating male sexuality and honoring diversity: Recognize the harmful aspects of toxic masculinity and work towards embracing male sexuality in a positive and respectful way.

By following the guidance provided in this book, men can develop the skills and confidence to navigate sexual relationships with respect, build stronger connections, and experience hotter and more fulfilling sex. So, whether you're looking to improve your romantic relationships or enhance your overall sexual well-being, The Better Man is a valuable resource that can help you achieve your goals.


Dimension: 209 x 139 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781637560358

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