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The Swinger in the Mirror: My Secret Life

The Swinger in the Mirror: My Secret Life

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Kim Lee is a psychotherapist with over 20 years of experience and a swinger, sharing her memoir to explore the secret society of swingers and the importance of human connection and relationships beyond sex. She shares her journey of working through her husband's affair and navigating relationship issues, inviting readers to learn from her mistakes and better safeguard their own relationships.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 277 pages
Publication date: 31 October 2023
Publisher: McFarland & Co Inc


Kim Lee, a highly experienced psychotherapist with over two decades of expertise in assisting clients in navigating complex relationship challenges and resolving communication breakdowns, including issues of trust and infidelity, has a remarkable secret life. Alongside her devoted husband, she is also a member of the secret society of swingers, a lifestyle that remains hidden from her children, closest friends, and even her own family.

In her captivating memoir, "Inside the Secret Society of Swingers," Kim Lee takes readers on a captivating journey into the world of swingers. While sex plays a central role in this society, the book goes beyond mere sexual encounters to explore the deeper dimensions of human connection and relationships. Lee vulnerably shares her personal journey, including the challenges she faced when her husband had an affair and the complexities of navigating relationship issues that both swingers and non-swingers encounter.

Through her experiences, Lee offers valuable insights and lessons for readers, inviting them to learn from her mistakes and apply them to strengthen their own relationships, regardless of their lifestyle choices. She emphasizes the importance of open communication, mutual respect, and commitment in sustaining a vibrant, healthy, and even sexy marriage.

While marriage may have its imperfections, Lee demonstrates that it can be a source of immense joy, growth, and fulfillment when both partners are willing to put in the necessary work and cultivate honest and transparent communication. "Inside the Secret Society of Swingers" is a thought-provoking and enlightening memoir that offers a unique perspective on relationships and sexuality, challenging societal norms and encouraging readers to embrace diversity and explore their own desires and boundaries.

Weight: 400g
Dimension: 153 x 228 x 21 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781476694238

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