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The Therapist’s Use of Self: Being the Catalyst for Change in Couple and Family Therapy

The Therapist’s Use of Self: Being the Catalyst for Change in Couple and Family Therapy

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The book "The Therapists Use of Self" encourages and trains students and practicing marriage and family therapists to bring themselves into the therapy room, offering guidelines and strategies for being more present and personal with their clients. It equips therapists with the skills to deepen their alliances with clients, liberate themselves from an overreliance on models, and bring their whole selves to the therapeutic encounter. Chapters cover pioneers in the field, ideas from outside the therapy room, and major therapeutic tools and strategies. Students of psychology, social work, nursing, and marriage and family programs, as well as mental health professionals, will benefit from this book.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 266 pages
Publication date: 22 December 2023
Publisher: Taylor & Francis Ltd


This book is a game-changer for students and practicing marriage and family therapists who want to bring themselves into the therapy room and offer their clients a more personal and present experience. Mental health professionals are often taught to approach therapy with caution and conservatism, relying on empirically supported and specific tools in sessions. However, what gets lost in this positivistic, formulaic, and scientific way of working is the therapists' unique voices, creativity, flexibility, and sense of playfulness that make the change process fun and upbeat.

The Therapists Use of Self is a groundbreaking book that equips therapists with the skills they need to deepen their alliances with clients, liberate themselves from an overreliance on models, and bring their whole selves to the therapeutic encounter. Chapters cover pioneers in the field before exploring ways to bring ideas from outside the therapy room, including music, art, literature, and film. The book includes a key chapter on teletherapy, and each chapter presents major therapeutic tools and strategies, case examples, the resulting outcomes, and key takeaways.

Students of psychology, social work, nursing, and marriage and family programs, as well as mental health professionals, will benefit greatly from this book. It offers a plethora of therapeutic tools, guidelines, and strategies for catalyzing change with even the most challenging couples and families. By embracing their unique voices, creativity, and sense of playfulness, therapists can create a more personalized and effective treatment experience that helps their clients achieve their goals and thrive.

In conclusion, The Therapists Use of Self is a must-read for anyone who wants to enhance their therapeutic skills and offer their clients a truly transformative experience. It is a game-changer for students and practicing marriage and family therapists who are committed to bringing their best selves to the therapy room and making a positive impact on their clients' lives.

Weight: 416g
Dimension: 152 x 230 x 19 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781032369167

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