When Home Hurts: A Guide for Responding Wisely to Domestic Abuse in Your Church

This book provides a pastoral guide to dealing wisely with domestic abuse in the local church, prioritizing the safety of the victim and offering advice on how to help in the short and long terms. It acknowledges the reality and power of God to heal and includes appendices with helpful answers to difficult questions and additional resources.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 288 pages
Publication date: 10 September 2021
Publisher: Christian Focus Publications Ltd

This book is written to provide pastors, church leaders, and church members with the tools they need to respond to situations of domestic abuse in a way that is consistent with the heart of God. The authors, Jeremy Pierre and Greg Wilson, prioritize the safety of the victim at all times and aim to help individuals become the kind of church leaders, members, friends, parents, siblings, or neighbors who respond wisely to these situations. The church is envisioned as a place where victims of abuse are welcomed into the tender care of the Lord, rather than a home that causes harm.

The book is divided into three sections:

Section 1: How to Understand Abuse

In this section, the authors provide an overview of abuse and the people who are caught up in it. They discuss the importance of understanding abuse dynamics and discerning the various forms of abuse that may occur within the church. The authors also emphasize the role of the church as an agent of God's love and provide guidance on how to care for the victim and confront the abuser.

Section 2: How to Help in the Short Term

This section offers practical advice on how to help in the short term. The authors discuss caring for the victim, confronting the abuser, and considering the collateral damage that may result from the abuse. They also provide guidance on helping the victim move from a victim to an overcomer and helping the abuser move from a servant to a servant-leader.

Section 3: How to Help in the Long Term

In this section, the authors focus on helping the victim and the abuser in the long term. They discuss the importance of supporting the victim's emotional and spiritual healing, as well as providing resources and support for the abuser. The authors also provide guidance on leading the church to respond with wisdom and compassion to situations of abuse.

Five appendices at the end of the book offer helpful answers to difficult questions and additional resources. Appendix A provides FAQs in the initial stages of dealing with domestic abuse, while Appendix B provides FAQs on separation, divorce, and legal issues.

This book is a valuable resource for pastors, church leaders, and church members who want to respond to situations of domestic abuse in a way that is consistent with the heart of God. It provides practical advice and guidance on how to understand abuse, help in the short and long term, and lead the church to respond with wisdom and compassion. By prioritizing the safety of the victim and working towards those caught up in abuse, the church can become a place of healing and hope for those who have been affected by this devastating issue.

Weight: 380g
Dimension: 140 x 214 x 19 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781527107229