With others in your absence

'With Others in Your Absence' is a collection of poems that explores the author's journey of grief after the loss of a parent. The poems are loosely based on seasons 11-14 of the 'classic series of Doctor Who' and celebrate platonic relationships as the speaker learns to readjust to a world made strange by the loss. The author struggles with grief and is far from resolution.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 36 pages
Publication date: 16 July 2021
Publisher: The Emma Press

With others in your absence, a profound exploration of the journey back to life, traversing the depths of grief and emerging into fresh perspectives on interpersonal relationships. The narrative gracefully moves forward and occasionally backward in time, celebrating the profound connections forged through platonic friendships that aid the speaker in adapting to a world altered by the loss of a parent. Numerous poems in the collection bear loose connections to the seasons 11 to 14 of the iconic "classic series of Doctor Who," with each piece drawing its title and imagery from a distinct serial.

Joe and I find ourselves indulging in excessive quantities of Spanish lager in a bar situated in West Bridgford. It has been eleven months since my father's passing, and the mere thought of elegizing him feels impossible. The word "dad" feels flat and devoid of the poetic essence that would allow me to address him as a lyrical being. Joe gently reminds me that an elegy is a written expression of grief once resolution has been found. However, I feel like a fallen apple, pierced by a thorny stem, lying amidst a bed of roses in the winter. In essence, I am far from achieving resolution.

As we continue our conversation, Joe shares a poignant observation: "Grief is like a spiral, constantly twisting and turning, but eventually, it leads to a place of acceptance." His words resonate with me, offering a glimmer of hope. However, I cannot help but feel as if I am trapped in the depths of the spiral, unable to break free and find my way to acceptance.

In this moment of introspection, I am reminded of the profound impact that loss has on our lives. It forces us to confront our deepest fears and emotions, challenging us to adapt and evolve in ways we never thought possible. The journey back to life is a complex and multifaceted process, filled with moments of despair and moments of hope.

Through the pages of "With Others in Your Absence," the speaker explores the intricacies of grief and the transformative power of human connection. The poems capture the essence of platonic relationships, highlighting the importance of friendship in navigating the complexities of life. They remind us that even in the face of loss, we can find solace and strength in the bonds we share with others.

As I reflect on the words I have written, I am struck by the universality of grief. It transcends boundaries of age, gender, and culture, touching the lives of countless individuals worldwide. The pain of losing a loved one is a profound experience that leaves an indelible mark on our souls.

In conclusion, "With Others in Your Absence" is a powerful and evocative collection of poetry that delves into the depths of grief and the journey back to life. Through its poignant words and evocative imagery, the book offers a glimpse into the human experience and the resilience of the human spirit. It serves as a reminder that even in the darkest of times, we are not alone and that the power of connection and love can help us find our way forward.

Weight: 66g
Dimension: 128 x 198 x 14 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781912915835