The Mating Trade

People use shadkhans, go-betweens, computer or video-dating agencies, marriage bureaux, Asian arranged marriages, gay dating agencies, or personal ads to help them find marriage. Dr. Mullan's book looks at the mating trade historically and cross-culturally, making it clear that there is nothing necessarily odd or deviant about it. It is a business like any other, and as long as people continue to want 'perfect partners, marriage, permanent relationships, dates, and sex, the business will thrive.

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 326 pages
Publication date: 24 August 2023
Publisher: Taylor & Francis Ltd

Marriages, it seems, are not solely orchestrated by celestial forces, as some may suggest. In the real world, many individuals require assistance in navigating the intricate process of finding a suitable partner. This assistance can come in various forms, such as the guidance of Jewish shadkhans (matchmakers), intermediaries, computer or video-dating agencies, marriage bureaux, Asian arranged marriages, gay dating agencies, or personal ads.

Originally published in 1984, this insightful work by the authors sheds light on the mating trade, dispelling some of its mystique and offering a comprehensive and detailed account of the role of "third parties" in marriage. Dr. Mullan delves into the history and cross-cultural perspectives of singles scenes and arranged marriages, making a compelling case that there is nothing inherently odd or deviant about this practice. Rather, it is a business like any other, responding to the desires of individuals seeking perfect partners, permanent relationships, dates, and sex.

However, the author acknowledges that meeting these demands in the evolving social structures of our time can be challenging. As long as people continue to yearn for fulfilling partnerships, marriage, and enduring relationships, the marriage trade will continue to thrive. It may even experience expansion and growth. Nevertheless, the author believes that the industry must first address certain issues and clean up its act to ensure its long-term sustainability and credibility.

In conclusion, while marriages may not be entirely predetermined by heavenly forces, the human desire for companionship and love drives the marriage trade, which offers a range of services and opportunities to help individuals find their perfect matches. As long as these desires persist, the industry will continue to evolve and adapt to meet the changing needs of society.

Weight: 600g
Dimension: 216 x 138 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781032230825