Why Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts

The practical, engaging and profound guide to making amends and learning how to forgive

Format: Paperback / softback
Length: 208 pages
Publication date: 11 January 2018
Publisher: Prelude

Harriet Lerner, renowned psychologist, and bestselling author of "The Dance of Anger," presents a delightful and uplifting guide to rectifying matters. Through her trademark wit, she delves into the profound significance of two essential words in the English language: "I'm sorry." Dr. Lerner sheds new light on the challenges of healing broken relationships and restoring trust, offering a unique perspective on the art of making amends.

With over two decades of dedicated study into apologies, Dr. Lerner explores the reasons behind some individuals' reluctance to offer them. In her book, "Why Won't You Apologize?" she presents compelling stories and robust theoretical frameworks that showcase the transformative power of making amends, particularly in cases where the harm inflicted is complex and far-reaching. Readers will gain valuable insights into crafting sincere apologies and avoiding signals of insincerity that exacerbate suffering.

In addition to challenging the notion that forgiveness is the sole pathway to peace of mind, Dr. Lerner empowers those who have been injured to resist the pressure to forgive too readily. She delves into the motivations behind both the non-apologizer and the over-apologizer, shedding light on why those who commit the most egregious acts often find it difficult to own up to their misdeeds.

"Why Won't You Apologize?" is a thought-provoking and empowering book that offers valuable insights into the complexities of apologies and their role in repairing relationships. Whether you're seeking to mend fences with loved ones or navigate challenging situations at work, this book will provide you with the tools and strategies needed to communicate effectively, own up to your mistakes, and foster healing and growth.

Weight: 190g
Dimension: 131 x 199 x 26 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9780715652640