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Anastasia Higginbotham

You Ruined It: A Book About Boundaries

You Ruined It: A Book About Boundaries

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In You Ruined It, Anastasia Higginbotham explores the confusion and pain experienced by children in the aftermath of incest and sexual assault, offering a testament to their experience and inspiring them to tell their stories and seek help.

Format: Hardback
Length: 96 pages
Publication date: 29 April 2022
Publisher: Dottir Press


In her powerful and poignant book, "You Ruined It," acclaimed author Anastasia Higginbotham delves into the profound confusion and pain experienced by children who have been victims of incest and sexual assault. When 11-year-old Dawn reveals to her family that a beloved cousin has sexually assaulted her, the consequences are both heart-wrenching and bewildering. Questions arise about the betrayal, the potential consequences for the perpetrator, and the fear of losing the trust of loved ones. "You Ruined It" serves as a testament to a child's journey through a confusing betrayal, the breaking of her heart, and the support of those who help her heal and rebuild. Higginbotham's writing is exquisite, capturing the raw emotions and delicate nuances of this complex topic with tenderness and honesty. This book is a powerful tool for anyone who has been affected by childhood sexual abuse, encouraging them to find the courage to share their stories and seek the freedom they deserve.

In her powerful and poignant book, "You Ruined It," acclaimed author Anastasia Higginbotham delves into the profound confusion and pain experienced by children who have been victims of incest and sexual assault. When 11-year-old Dawn reveals to her family that a beloved cousin has sexually assaulted her, the consequences are both heart-wrenching and bewildering. Questions arise about the betrayal, the potential consequences for the perpetrator, and the fear of losing the trust of loved ones. "You Ruined It" serves as a testament to a child's journey through a confusing betrayal, the breaking of her heart, and the support of those who help her heal and rebuild. Higginbotham's writing is exquisite, capturing the raw emotions and delicate nuances of this complex topic with tenderness and honesty. This book is a powerful tool for anyone who has been affected by childhood sexual abuse, encouraging them to find the courage to share their stories and seek the freedom they deserve.


Dimension: 152 x 228 (mm)
ISBN-13: 9781948340304

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